My name is Jackie. I am a single mother to three amazing kids; a 9 year old daughter and 6 and 2 year old sons. My youngest son was different from the start. He was the first full term baby I had, the first I was able to take home, and the first I was able to breastfeed. I began as a single mother with him, instead of having someone at home to help. I questioned my instincts and knowledge constantly. Within only a few days, I was struggling to keep up a supply and it seemed that he was just never satisfied. As the weeks went on, he was throwing up, refluxing, and just uncomfortable all the time. My previous two children had had issues with dairy as infants, so I did what I was taught and I gave up breastfeeding to trial formula.
Standard formula? Fail. Lactose Free formula? Fail. Soy formula? Fail. Sensitive formula? Fail. I was at a loss. Each one seemed a little better, then worse. He was referred to a GI doctor and diagnosed as having being either allergic to milk and soy or MSPI and severe GERD; two conditions which still, to this day rule his life. He was placed on a hypoallergenic, prescribed formula (Neocate) along with medications. This certainly improved things, and he continued to grow as he was supposed to, despite continued uncomfortableness. At a year of age, he was finally allergy tested (skin pricks)... low and behold, it showed NO reaction to milk! That confirmed that he was at very least MPI - or a milk protein intolerance, as he does not tolerate it, despite being "not" allergic and a confirmed allergy for soy.
Fast forward to 2.5 years old... and his allergies have only worsened. He still does not show a confirmed allergy to milk, but reacts very obviously to it. He has added at least 25 other allergic foods to his list, and was recently diagnosed as having Eosiniphillic Esophogitus. Most of his allergic reactions are delayed, and only show up on patch testing or with trial and error, something that is not easy to put a child with such bad experiences through. He has ended up developing so much pain and continuing reflux problems that he refuses even his formula, the one safe thing he has had his entire life... and is now exclusively fed via a Gastronomy Tube placed in his stomach.
Dealing with allergies at all can be frustrating. Dealing with invisible conditions, once that not all traditional tests can confirm can be even more frustrating. Working with the other amazing mothers through the PIC Foundation has helped me identify some of the problems so that I could either understand other experiences or have a clearer idea of what to speak with his team of specialists about. I am happy to share my experiences with others that are struggling; as we have truly shown that these conditions span such a broad base. All of our children have ended up in different positions or with different overlying problems if not healed from their problems, and we each offer a different perspective and experience
Standard formula? Fail. Lactose Free formula? Fail. Soy formula? Fail. Sensitive formula? Fail. I was at a loss. Each one seemed a little better, then worse. He was referred to a GI doctor and diagnosed as having being either allergic to milk and soy or MSPI and severe GERD; two conditions which still, to this day rule his life. He was placed on a hypoallergenic, prescribed formula (Neocate) along with medications. This certainly improved things, and he continued to grow as he was supposed to, despite continued uncomfortableness. At a year of age, he was finally allergy tested (skin pricks)... low and behold, it showed NO reaction to milk! That confirmed that he was at very least MPI - or a milk protein intolerance, as he does not tolerate it, despite being "not" allergic and a confirmed allergy for soy.
Fast forward to 2.5 years old... and his allergies have only worsened. He still does not show a confirmed allergy to milk, but reacts very obviously to it. He has added at least 25 other allergic foods to his list, and was recently diagnosed as having Eosiniphillic Esophogitus. Most of his allergic reactions are delayed, and only show up on patch testing or with trial and error, something that is not easy to put a child with such bad experiences through. He has ended up developing so much pain and continuing reflux problems that he refuses even his formula, the one safe thing he has had his entire life... and is now exclusively fed via a Gastronomy Tube placed in his stomach.
Dealing with allergies at all can be frustrating. Dealing with invisible conditions, once that not all traditional tests can confirm can be even more frustrating. Working with the other amazing mothers through the PIC Foundation has helped me identify some of the problems so that I could either understand other experiences or have a clearer idea of what to speak with his team of specialists about. I am happy to share my experiences with others that are struggling; as we have truly shown that these conditions span such a broad base. All of our children have ended up in different positions or with different overlying problems if not healed from their problems, and we each offer a different perspective and experience
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